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C says:
June 9, 2011 at 9:41 am
Girl, get out. Two years is long enough to feel secure in your feelings for one another, in my opinion (and it is just my opinion). I think you know when something’s not right and your gut seems to be screaming just that. Also, living together is a great way to know if you can, well, live together. If this is something you are ready for and he is so resistant (especially when he can try it out temporarily while he looks for his own place!!), then maybe it is time to move on. Unless he has some personal moral reason for not wanting to do so…
Two years, y’all!
I have experience with expressing what I want out of a relationship and it being different than what the other person wanted or being farther along emotionally than the other person. But I gotta tell ya, the one that wanted to be with me and wanted to progress in our relationship took the steps to get us there together. And we are still together and stronger than ever.
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