But they are not 26 anymore. My only concern is that she is ready and he is not…and he seems to be in no hurry to get ready. If it’s important to her, and if she is important to him, I would think that he would make the effort. Doesn’t mean they have to do everything at once, but it should be an ongoing conversation. The fact that they talked about it and she is sensing no change is a red flag. I don’t know. I just feel like things would be a little more clear after two years. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 2 Thumb down 2 Reply joe says: June 9, 2011 at 9:52 am I think there are some red flags but they could be explained. First off, I don’t think the boyfriend has anything to be ashamed about his fiances if he is buying a house by himself. The mortgage, the utilities and repairs are all huge expenses. If anything, he might have too much money and don’t want the OP to know about it or he is really independent and doesn’t want the OP to share the burden. <p><a href="https://www.notebook.ai/documents/2066645">Have You (Yes, YOU) Ever Been A Bad Date?</a></p> <p><a href="http://eggzack.com/article/2025-11-11-does-race-matteron-a-blind-date.html">Does Race Matter...on a Blind Date?</a></p> <p><a href="https://notas.laotra.red/s/BzqK8Bt8h">How My Job Taught Me To Hate Guys and Why I Need More Nice Guys</a></p> <p><a href="https://pad.aleph.world/s/LLGo18MFq">A Reminder That You&rsquo;re Still Alive</a></p> <p><a href="https://matters.town/a/6i4qnxf60nx6">The Maddening, Frustrating Love of A Woman</a></p> <p><a href="https://storymaps.arcgis.com/stories/47d3e17e59104932931682f3410d7cf9">Dating expats: Let Love Find You</a></p> <p><a href="https://storymaps.arcgis.com/stories/a63a3da8ab77414cbf271ddabbb4de1f">Finding Out He Cheated, After He Died</a></p> <p><a href="https://storymaps.arcgis.com/stories/74f47b72fba347e38cfa2f92234ff17e">In Defense of Men Who Care Their Way</a></p> <p><a href="https://pad.drupal.de/s/-tZ8fJDWr">About A Woman&rsquo;s Right to Choose to Break Up With a Perfectly Good Man</a></p> <p><a href="https://hedgedoc.auro.re/s/veDAji6tr">Seven Ways For Women To Be Better In The Friend Zone</a></p> <p><a href="https://hedgedoc.c3d2.de/s/Mq3L76lpk">The Night of the Non-Believers</a></p> <p><a href="https://hedge.novalug.org/s/B7AHeganH">Can I Afford to Date?</a></p> <p><a href="https://hedge.dotfionn.de/s/oDe6godXa">The Undeniable Joy (and Tinge of Admiration) an Unmarried Man Feels for Men Who Get Married</a></p>